I found another spot. On my way to conduct a funeral Friday afternoon, I glanced in the rearview mirror while at a stop light to make sure I didn’t have anything unsightly on my face, nose, mouth before arriving at the funeral home.
That’s when I saw the spot. A white mark on my upper lip. It wouldn’t wipe off. “Rats,” I said to no one in particular. I’ve seen that kind of mark before – on my arm.
15 years ago.
The light turned green so I drove on. At the next red light I took a selfie and sent it to my friend and Dermatologist PA and asked, “What do you think?” She replied within 5 minutes. “Come in Monday.”
I went in. I came out with a biopsied, bandaged upper lip.
I’ve had two previous melanomas and one squamous cell carcinoma (the wound from that surgery is still healing).
Now, I wait. What will the biopsy show this spot to be?
I know the principles of living in the now. But I don’t know how to live those principles all of the time. Sometimes I do it. Sometimes I don’t. Right now, for me to live in the now, is a choice.
It has yet to become an automatic response.
The “right now” is this:
- I don’t know the nature of the spot. That’s the fact. So why worry about something that may not be? Why let a fear of tomorrow rob me of the fun I can have today?
- I feel good. At least until the anesthesia wears off!
- I have great care from the dermatology team.
- I have this moment. Right now. That’s all I’m guaranteed. So, I will make this present moment, standing here typing and drinking from a straw, looking at Denise across the room, the best moment ever.
I will live by Calvin’s philosophy when he says to Hobbs, “We’re so busy watching out for what’s just ahead of us that we don’t take time to enjoy where we are.”